“When will your baby’s eyes change to your color?”

eyes change color

It’s November 2014. My husband, in-laws, I and baby stay in a small town in Jilin province where we visit my husband’s aunt.

At that time, our baby son’s eyes are brown with a shade of blue. My husband’s aunt studies his eyes. She then looks at my eyes, which are lighter than our son’s and green with a shade of brown. She asks: “When will his eyes change to your color?”

Has anyone ever asked you a similar question?

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Hi, I'm Ruth, welcome to China Elevator Stories! I have been living in Kunming and Shenzhen in the past and am now staying in Northeast China with my Chinese husband and our baby and toddler son. Join us on our journey bridging worlds!


  1. My six-year-old grandson’s eyes are a source of puzzlement to many people. His father whose parents are Puerto Rican has dark brown eyes, and his mother (my daughter) has light brown eyes with a touch of green. But my grandson has dark blue eyes from me and some French great-grandparent on his father’s side.

  2. My mother is Afrikaans South African with bright blue eyes. My dad is Greek and has dark brown eyes. When I was born, my eyes were black and by the time I was seven, my eyes changed to hazel… According to quite a few people I know, my eyes are getting more green these days. I guess that’s what happens when you come from mixed ethnic or racial backgrounds. For the most part, the dominant gene (brown eyes) will take over, but some get lucky! 🙂

      • Some people value what is rare or an anomaly. But there are those who prefer dark eyes or there wouldn’t be the song “Brown Eyed Girl.” Personally, I was pretty excited to find my son has light colored eyes because I didn’t think it was even possible!

  3. Since I didn’t have contact with infants in Asia, I’m not really sure. . .but I think maybe they don’t have blue eyes when they’re born, because of melanin? So maybe it’s novel in that sense. My nieces are half-Asian, and they had really dark bluish brown that changed to dark brown by the time they were around a year or so old.

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